Monday, April 25, 2005

Another level baby

Lets take this to another level.

I have been thinking about a comment someone made the other day as we were having one of our heart to heart conversations. About what?:-) Men, what else. Okay so now, l tell my friend that there's this jamaa l truly like and that he has qualities that any babe would fall for. I liked him because he was truthful. What do l mean? I met him on the net. Through email specifically. Then l met him physically when he came to Nairobi. Apparently we were at a conference together in Addis. That's a story for another day.

But what l liked about this gentleman is that what he said he was, he was twice as good. I like honesty. Dishonesty is frightening to me. So you can imagine how taken l was. He was even cuter than his picture. Oh brother!! Okay am done whatevering.

But now comes the big BUT. After all is said and done, this guy says, "you know l think you are too good for me." What!!! Who ever made a statement like that?!!!!*!! I was so hgggggrrrrrhhhh!!! l just didn't know what to say.

My friend looked at me and she said.."if he thinks you are too good for him, you probably are." That just threw me off balance.I mean what the heck!!! When you just think you have landed on your feet suddenly you realize you were doing a head stand all this time.


gl1 said...

By saying you are too good for him he is simply saying he doent have feelings for you. Ama he has met someone!
Pole sana gal but the jamaa is bila balls he cant tell you the truth.

Anonymous said...

Could You please tell us the whole story. Tafadhali coz i am falling for some guy online and just want to know if its the same jamaa

MsaniiXL said...

What a lame excuse the cat does not really wnat to be with you

akiey said...

I wouldn't dismiss this guy as uninterested or lacking in honesty, he's probably been dealing with endless ill-mannered girls to a point he felt overwhelmed with your good character. He may even have been hurt so bad several times before he's not sure he should jump into anything yet. Check with him.
It all depends on HOW he said it, ask him to give you details, and lots of them too.

nick said...

either he is bila interest for u or he thinks that he is the problem. maybe he thinks he's not good enough for you instead of u being too good for him. it may sound like am repeatin the point...but there is a difference.
he made it sound like ur the prob when it may be him.

Shiroh said...

when guys want out they say dumb things like those, to be honest if a guy wants you it doesn't matter if you are madam president and he is a tout he will not think things like you are too good for me, he will say look i can still show you the world even if you are madam president.

Mama JunkYard said...

His statement is a bit odd. As much as I would like to give my take on this, it probably won't make a difference because only he knows what he meant.
I would suggest you ask him to explain exactly what he meant. He certainly owes you that much.

SHOBALI said...

Give Thanks Girl!
The best is yet to come.God just protected.
Keep looking up, and you will find the unconditional love and Unqualified courtesy, only from above.

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